About Cassie, the founder
I grew up watching my mother try to leave a marriage she knew didn't serve her. I watched her navigate a system that wasn't built for her situation, against a partner who had no intention of making it easy. I saw what it cost her to do it without the right preparation.
Years later, I found myself in my own version of that story. More than once.
That's why I do this work.
Not the divorces where you split the dishes and stay cordial at soccer games. The ones where your ex weaponizes the kids. Hides money. Charms the mediator. Makes you feel like you're losing your mind.
Credentials & Experience
I'm a divorce strategist and narcissistic abuse recovery coach with over 10 years of coaching experience. I've completed the National Association of Trial Consultants (NATC) training, and I've guided more than 450 women through coercive control, high-conflict separation, and the process of rebuilding after leaving.
My approach integrates legal literacy, psychological pattern recognition, and trauma-informed planning. I'm not a lawyer and I'm not a therapist. I'm someone who understands this landscape from every angle: personally, professionally, and strategically.
80% of my cases involve narcissistic dynamics. I've worked through forensic evaluations, special needs custody disputes, coercive control documentation, and financial discovery when one spouse controlled all the money. Half of my clients were not the primary earners in their marriage. That changes nothing about what they deserve, and everything about how we need to prepare.
I don't practice law. I prepare you to work with your legal team like a strategist.
Who This Is For
This is for you if:
You're going through a divorce that feels more like a psychological chess match than a legal process. You're dealing with a spouse who manipulates, controls, or retaliates. You're worried about custody, finances, or your credibility, and you don't know who to trust.
You've Googled everything. And you're ready to stop reacting and start planning.
This is not for you if:
You're looking for someone to co-sign your anger, tell you what you want to hear, or promise outcomes no one can guarantee. I'm direct. I'm strategic. And I will always tell you what you need to hear, not what feels comfortable.
You don't have to figure this out alone, and you don't have to figure it out right now.
But you do need to start planning.
Before we work together, we'll start with a short pre-call screening so I can understand your situation and make sure I'm the right fit for where you are right now.
Not sure where to start? Explore my services to find the right level of support, from self-paced courses to 1:1 strategic coaching.